Showing posts with label society. Show all posts
Showing posts with label society. Show all posts

Sunday, August 30, 2009

Just wondering

Why do some people love to shock/hurt others just because they live a miserable life....

Why do some people hurt others because they have been hurt in the same way by some one else...

Why dont we share the happiness of others instead of dragging happy people in the circle of our misery and pain?

Why do we prefer to stare in dark instead of lighting up a candle.. which will illuminate atleast our immediate surrounding?

Friday, August 21, 2009

power cut

Ever since i shifted to west bengal in 1985, one knowledge has dawned to me day by day .. that is why the industrial development is almost zero in this state. the massive amount of power cut and its precise timing (as if on a preplanned manner) must be the greatest contributor behind the factor that industrialists are scared of this state.

when i was a student i used to observe with great amusement how powercut was directly proportional to exam time, specially the board examinations. just after the tests were over and we were given the study leave all of a sudden electricity used to become a rare phenomenon.. exam over and every thing back to normal.

i have only worked with manufacturers once, garment manufacturers, and there i saw how nightmarish production is in this state. hours of powercut was every day story.. even personal generator set was not enough to save them. doing something from this state which needs electricity, ahem, i guess a thing which is an essence of any production these days is a perfect nightmare.

God save this state.

Thursday, August 13, 2009

two types

in our life we will meet two types of people, one who are not shy to show their real face to the world..if they are good they wear it on their sleeves, if they are bad then too they wear it on their sleeves.

The second type are the tricky ones, the ones I really don’t feel safe with, people who hide their evil nature by extreme sweetness. And often mimic good people (or semi angels) to the perfection to have their ways. Have seen ample amount of these people, and the moment I recognize them I instantly withdraw from them (by the means of heart).

trust

On one hand they say
“trust everyone even if they put you down”

then they say
“if a person fools you once its his fault, if he fools you twice, its your FAULT.”

Being born and brought up amongst self contradictory phillosophies I took the path best for me, listening to myself, to my own soul and then others.

Trusting a person is good for a healthy life, but too much trust can be toxic. If a person lets down your trust too much, too many times its better to let that person go. No matter how indispensable that person is. He should go.

His intentions may be harmless, but the fact is his presence is toxic to you, you can point out his way once, twice but how many times will you say, “you are hurting me” without feeling guilty? Its better to move over.

Later when we look back at these relationships we thank ourselve for moving on.

After we all have but one life, why waste it among people who are toxic for us?

second thanks

I have truly admired ambumani ramadoss since the day he banned smoking in public places, not that it stopped it, but it showed he cared.

Second thing I loved about him was his earnest attempt to revoke the unfair treatment of people who love people of same gender. It was widely criticized but his seed has become a tree. Finally indian government has taken this too much needed step of treating normal citizens as normal citizens. Keeping my fingers crossed that it wont be revoked. My best wishes for these harmless, normal human beings who have been unfairly mistreated for years and famillies have ruined because of an unfair law.

Supported with best wishes.