his way

When do we actually grow up? When we learn to accept it gracefully that the person I love most may have his very own way of life, which may not resemble with mine at all.

We may be as different as black and white, our maturity reflects when we don’t try to prove ourselves superior, or try to pull him down so we can be alike.

We simply accept his ways and decide whether we can continue the journey together. If not then we may walk away after discussing the reasons.

So many times I see people hurting themselves and others by this attempt to change others.. trying to make a businessman out of a saint or saint out of a businessman. Somewhere deep inside it reflects immaturity, which wants to control the other person’s life.